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Reading The Classics

Reading The Classics

Let me first start by saying that I was a super de-dooper, mediocre student as a child. I did have a grand imagination though. Hey we needed our imaginations back in the 60′s and 70′s, with our little black and white TV with three channels which came on only at night after dinner. No internet, no computers, no ipod, definitely no cell phones, one old black dial up phone is all we had. We played outside, ran free, swam for hours in the summer, used no sunscreen, wore no bike helmets. My mother had a whistle she would blow when she wanted us home. Sometimes we heard it and sometimes we were too far away. We came home when we were hungry. However, we had fun and as I remember, lots of it.

Back to the education part, I did not read, or I read very little and as the last child of five with a growing dysfunction taking over our family, nobody read to me either. And yet…I loved books. After having my own kids and reading to them from their infancy, My husband and I ended up being those people who decided not to send their kids to school, for better and worse, we have educated ourselves. On many days/years I have scratched my head and wondered what the heck I was doing but mostly we had so much fun and did so many cool things I have never regretted it. Fortunately, all but one of my  four children have inherited my love of books.

I have read much recently about the lack of a good grounding in critical thinking. Liberal Arts Colleges are closing their doors perhaps because students feel pushed to study fields that will provide a high return in the job market. They are skills driven, not seeking to spend time thinking and contemplating.  What is a Liberal Arts degree worth anyway, and what about critical thinking? University, in my opinion, is too late for this, it should start in elementary school. Why aren’t children taught logic, rhetoric, and made to read classic literature? I am not talking about fancy prep. schools but public schools.  I suppose the reasons are many, probably the first of which is that many teachers aren’t familiar with classics themselves AND more importantly, they are forced to “teach to the test” with little if any choice of curriculum.

In the past several years a cornerstone of my homeschooling my own kids has been a requirement that they read classic books, one a month to be exact. These kids of mine are just like many kids in most ways, wanting to spend too much time on Facebook, Twitter and YouTube and moaning over their math. How did I get them to read classics? I took them to groups of other kids like themselves who read classic books. They sit around and discuss these books with cups of coffee, or hot cocoa and they really discuss them, in great detail, pick them apart and digest them. They love to do this, hey what’s not to love, book clubs are fun. I respect their opinions and work to create an atmosphere of trust so they all speak up. What we have found which should be no surprise to many is that classic literature can be good. It can also teach things that can not be found in text books or god forbid the dreaded anthologies which I detest. Excuse me for saying, but what a cop out. OK, I suppose if you want to study *about* literature use them, but if you want to study literature, read books for heavens sake!

We have read all kinds of books, in all genres, and not surprisingly have extrapolated, all kinds of  book information to real life situations. Books have taught us spelling, history, language, and greatly increased our vocabulary, in fact, my 12 year old whipped me in Scrabble recently and I was trying. Books have stretched our minds and opinions, caused us to argue, confounded us, made us laugh and made us cry and yes occasionally bored us.

In the midst of working on a double major at university my eldest daughter has repeatedly told me the thing that most prepared her for her work there was reading the classics, forming an opinion on what she read, analyzing it,  and then sharing her observations in public. This is what she spends much of her time doing  at school and one reason she is doing very well.  I’m with Thomas Jefferson, I do not want to live in a world without books and I feel bad for the millions who have divorced themselves from challenging reading.

Teenage Dream?

Teenage Dream?

What ever happened to the music we listen to? I say we because even though I am certifiably old, and I mean actually old, not 39 but 50, I still enjoy listening to pop music. I regularly embarrass my children by moving to the groove in the car or wherever I happen to be. One of my favs is Jason Derulo. I especially like his “Ridin’ Solo”, in fact I have it as my ring tone. It makes me want to dance every time I hear it. The lyrics to his songs are fairly run of the mill though with the one night stand stuff and the *s* word that has to be erased for the radio. He’s fairly tame compared to the rest though.

So number one for a couple of weeks was Katy Perry’s Teenage Dream. It should have been called Teenage Nightmare. Since when does teenage casual sex not have serious consequences? This isn’t just a wow, that wasn’t supposed to happen but it did kind of thing, we got carried away kind of thing. This is a celebration of let’s have sex and live it up, get drunk and have sex on the beach, us teenagers in a motel, where ever we feel like it, no worries. Do these kids not get pregnant, or worse STDs? Of course they do. Why are singers like KP an so many others celebrating things that are poisoning the minds of so many impressionable kids that listen to their music. Enough on Katy Perry.

What about the lovely Kesha talking about brushing her “teef” with a bottle of Jack. Isn’t that attractive? According to the singer herself the song is about stumbling home drunk after a night of partying. Is this supposed to be cute or maybe creative? Again, I know I’m old but I don’t get it at all. And how about her Take It Off song, let me just copy over some of the lyrics for your reading pleasure.

And now we lookin’ like pimps
In my gold Trans-Am.
Got a water bottle full of whiskey
In my handbag.
Got my drunk text on
I’ll regret it in the mornin’
But tonight
I don’t give a
I don’t give a
I don’t give a

Sounds like prostitution to me, just what you want for your up and coming teenagers???? Right on our pop music stations. But that’s not all as they say on “As Seen on TV”. It gets much worse.

How about the following for some lovely lyrics? Didn’t Rianna learn her lesson from her last boyfriend beating her up? Now she’s singing about it as if it were the best thing since sliced bread. I’m really scratching my head on this one.

If she ever tries to fu**ing leave again
I’mma tie her to the bed
And set the house on fire

Just gonna stand there
And watch me burn
But that’s alright
Because I like
The way it hurts
Just gonna stand there
And hear me cry
But that’s alright
Because I love
The way you lie
I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

So, if I’m getting this right, even though he’s beating her up she better not leave again because if she does he’ll tie her to the bed and set the house on fire, and she’s crooning in the back ground about how I love the way you lie and I like the way it hurts. Did I miss something somewhere? Do these people have a brain cell between them? What is wrong with this picture? How low can we go in pop music? There is NO WAY to sanitize this garbage for the radio.I have banned it in my car and on the radio. I am fairly liberal with my kids and their music. They have to choose what to listen to in order to learn to make good choices for themselves but no more Katy Perry and definitely no more of this insipid Eminem song. I’m sure there is worse. The kicker is, this isn’t even Gangsta Rap. This is supposed to be pop music. I am depressed and I’m turning my radio OFF!

Gobsmacked by Susan Boyles

Gobsmacked by Susan Boyles

I can not stop thinking about this whole thing with Susan Boyles.

Have we learned anything from her? I hope so. What if Susan couldn’t sing though? What if she was just Susan Boyles same person without her special and amazing talent? Would we adore her?  We should. Why? Because she is Susan Boyles. My point and as Ellen DeGeneres says, “I do have one”, is that each and every person on this planet is unique and yes special and even wonderful.

What if Susan had a mediorcre voice, or worse, a horrible voice. She would NOT have made such a sensation. She would have been laughed off the stage or worse booed at and made fun of. When did we get so obsessed with physical characteristics, money, prestige and yes talent? When did we get so darn mean!? Don’t get me wrong, Susan’s voice brought tears to my eyes. I can’t wait to her more of her singing. I honestly can say though that if I met Susan in Scotland when I was traveling near her hometown just over two years ago, I’m sure I would have liked her, even if I had never heard her sing,  because well, she just seems like the kind of person I would enjoy sitting and chatting with over a cup of tea.

What about the average Joes and Janes though that fill this planet? I have a good feeling that if any of us took the time to hear their stories and really listen we would find a world of Susan Boyles or at least of people equally as wonderful and surprisingly talented in an amazing variety of ways. I’m really hoping my kids will take note and listen to my rambling lectures on the value of each human being on this small blue ball we call home. God bless you Susan Boyles and all the Susan Boyles who have yet to be discovered.

Jail House Rock

Jail House Rock

I know it may seem sort of ridiculous that my experience two weeks ago made me think of this Elvis song as it is nothing like real jail but I thought it would be fun to post the video anyway and growing up in Tennessee I sort of feel somehow connected to Elvis in the fried peanut butter sandwich sort of way.

Two weeks ago I went into a real maximum security facility to participate in a program called Ephipany Ministries Inc. So much went on it really would be impossible to describe but a friend who was there also did a bang up job so I’m just going to put a link to his blog. Please visit www.butchkinerny.blogspot.com For once in my life I am truly speechless which doesn’t make for a good blog but it is at least an opportunity to stop and think deeply, something that is good for us all.  In the end hug your children, hold them close, pray for them and best of all give them a decent example to live up to.

Mimi

Gone to the Dogs

Gone to the Dogs

Over the course of the last two days my four girls and I have gone twice to a big dog show in our town. What fun we’ve had seeing all the numerous breeds of dogs up close and personal and meeting with their owners and handlers. I also found the owners naturally very proud of  their particular breed and are happy to answer questions and talk about their dogs.  Before we got our first rescue dog eight years ago, the girls and I studied dogs for six months. I mean we really studied dogs. Being a homeschool family we try to take every opportunity we can to get kids to research things that interest them and the dog topic has always been a favorite in our home, except for my husband who just is NOT a dog person. We love him anyway. We learned an amazing amount about dog breeds, temperaments and which dog is good for which type of family. We have also read many stories with dogs in them so we had lots to talk about with the dog fanciers.

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We observed lots of fascinating things today. For example, the handlers actually put “the bait” in their mouths during the time the dog is being judged or waiting to be judged. What this actually means is that the handlers put dog treats in their own mouths and then remove it and feed it to the dogs. I just hope I didn’t see it the other way around but I’m not entirely sure. I love my dog but I generally don’t put it’s food in my mouth at anytime even though I know that their mouths are supposed to be cleaner than ours. I also saw more grooming on these dogs than I see with three teenage girls in my house. The amount of hair drying, hair spraying and primping was astonishing! I am so over joyed that at most we have to bathe our doggies in our own bathtub and on a good day brush them. In the end I must say that the whole experience was fascinating and I’m glad it’s not my hobby. I’ll stick to the two lovely mutt dogs I have at home.

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Merry Christmas 2008 Friends and Family

Merry Christmas 2008 Friends and Family

December 11, 2008

Greetings Friends and Family,

We are all well and surviving the financial crunch. We’ve been cutting back for years so it isn’t much different for us. I did go back to work very part time last February for my local Parks and Recreation department as the Nature Education Assistant. I adore my job which involves things I love. It is rather challenging though to fit all my responsibilities in but I manage, mostly by having a messy house a good bit of the time.

Anna, now 16, and learning to drive is constantly on the go with her classes at Community College which she started this year after acing their entrance exam. She is also working part time as a life guard in a senior community. She is learning to play guitar and constantly helping out in the community where needed. Mia, now 14, is not learning to drive but choosing new hair styles AND colors regularly. Both Mia and Anna became vegetarian earlier this year. Mia loves all things animal and would like to help in this area in the future. She is hoping to raise a rescue puppy soon. Mia is also very musical and plays just about anything she can get her hands on.

Jenna who will turn 12 in a few days is rather happy go lucky and is not ready to change her hair color, yet anyway…Thank goodness. She loves to play computer games and read and is getting better and better at violin. She has made a number of new friends this year as she has joined her older sisters at youth group. Sara, still in the single digits, at 9 is doing well and loves so many things it’s hard to list them all. She has a very best friend who she sees several times a week. I almost feel I have five daughters but who’s counting? Sara has begun playing clarinet and in less than six months has been promoted out of the beginning band. Sara loves to talk and will have an opinion on most any subject, gee I wonder where she gets that trait from?

Tony is slogging away as he has for the last ten years commuting into DC so we can have the lovely life we live. We are ever grateful for his job and the security it brings. He also has begun training at our church to become a Stephen Minister which is a lay ministry program to help people in crisis. Mostly, he’s learning how to be a good listener which frankly I think he already was. I still volunteer with my jail ministry and hope to go back for a weekend in February.

We would love to hear from all of you and wish you a truly happy and healthy new year. May God richly bless you!

Love,

Tony, Mimi, Anna, Mia, Jenna, and Sara

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Books and More Books

Books and More Books

I can’t believe it’s been so long since I posted, over two months now. Time does fly when you’re living with four growing girls and one growing husband. Just kidding, even though Tony has put on a couple of pounds nobody can tell, not even me. He still looks thin and handsome.
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I’ve also put on a couple of pounds though even though, and I am not making this up, I lift weights and do floor exercises and do my cardio three times a week at least. I’ve recently gone back to swimming too in an effort to keep off the creeping extra few pounds. It is definitely getting harder but I never had abs of steel anyway. Age seems to be against me in some ways but certainly not in others.

I’ve been doing lots and lots. One of the highlights is my trip to bookfestival 028 in Washington DC. I hadn’t gone the year before because I had no one to accompany me. This year I had great company with my youngest daughter. Mostly what we did all day was wait in line to meet some of our favorite authors. Sara was extremely patient and a great photographer also. The absolute most exciting part was listening to bookfestival 019Alexander McCall Smith speak and meeting him in person. I can clearly see why his books are so tender and warm because he is too. What a lovely man and very funny as well. He waited patiently while Sara snapped our picture. If you have not discovered the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency series you are really missing out on a  treat.

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The photos that Sara so expertly took were of David Shannon, Joseph Bruchac, R.L. Stine and Marc Brown.

I told Marc Brown that I had four daughters and that his Arthur books were their absolute favorites. He said he loves to hear that. The entire day was a blast even though we stood and sat around most of it waiting in line. I will definitely go again and Sara will be welcomed too.

Last but not least, for my job I recently had the need to dress as a witch. Though I have loved Halloween I have never really gotten into the evil characters too much. I have to admit it was fun though. I had not really prepared a costume but with some green paint a bad wig and a hat and a brown sack like thing I was transformed.

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At the moment that’s about all I have time for and hopefully I’ll have more time to post my thoughts at least.

Mimi

Shakespeare and Cokie Roberts

Shakespeare and Cokie Roberts

My brain is rather gelatinous lately as I seem to be so worn out at the end of the day. I do have lots of thoughts that I keep meaning to jot down so I can blog about them later but I don’t seem to have the pencil and paper when I have the thought. Those thoughts will have to wait for another day. I am at my husband’s computer and so had a look through his photos and low and behold I completely forgot to mention our wonderful trip over the Shenandoah Mountains to Staunton, Virginia6a00d8341e1e2c53ef00e552300da68834-800wi

For Tony’s 50th I took him away. It only took us three months to manage it in our calendars but better late than never. We stayed in a 1920′s hotel called The Stonewall Jackson Hotel which was really quite nice, not too fancy but very comfy. The best part was that it was right next door to The American Shakespeare Center also called The Blackfriars Playhouse. It was modeled after the old Blackfriars in England.

I had never seen a Shakespeare play and we saw Macbeth. It was absolutely wonderful. I learned more about Shakespeare by seeing the play and taking the behind the scene tour than I ever did by reading the plays in school. A few things surprised me, first of all I didn’t realize that there would be no amplification. They did not have any microphones. The theater was created in much the way the original would have been and they used the natural acoustics. Secondly, the actors chose their own costumes and they were a mix-mash of old and new; which according to our tour guide was exactly what the original Shakespearean actors did. There were also very few props but the actors kept us totally into the show with their amazing presence and incredible use of the language. My favorite was lady Macbeth and her “out damn spot!” I loved the witches too, they were really creepy, again with few props. Following are a few shots Tony took during our tour of the place.
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I must work out to get the kids there to see a play also. I think it would replace months of reading just to see one play. Speaking of months of reading, my eldest two recently got the opportunity to meet Cokie Roberts. She was giving a speech at a professional organization which happens to be in the same building where Tony works and he got an invitation for them. It was good for Mia who has blossomed into quite the feminist lately. Stupid me though, I went out the night before to get her book for them to have signed and I got the wrong one. She was signing her newest one, Ladies of Liberty: The Women Who Shaped Our Nation and I got a later issue, Founding Mother’s: The Women Who Raised Our Nation. Oh well, she didn’t seem to mind and they both seemed interesting. I have not had a chance to read either.

Here’s my little plug for homeschooling, if the girls had been in school they would not have been able to go. As it was, they were the only teenagers there. I would have loved to have gone too but I had a work engagement that I could not miss. They sat in front, paid attention and Mia asked a great question. She wanted to know why the US hasn’t had a female president. Mia was most impressed by how “normal” Cokie Roberts was. She said she had a bit of fuzz on her dress and a tissue hanging out of her purse. It made me smile. At the end a good day was had by all.

Pandora’s Music Box

Pandora’s Music Box

What a drag life would be without music. I listen to music all the time and so does my whole family. We have the classical genre covered by my husband and thanks to him the girls have been exposed to it and enjoy it as well. I have never learned to appreciate it fully. I sometimes think this is a sure sign of my weak intelligence, but I need to be honest because well I’m just that kind of person and well secondly I have Eyes for Lies stopping in to my blog now and again so I have to be especially careful (just kidding but she does have a fantastic blog.)

How do you listen to music? Back in 1977 when I was in high school I saved up every penny I made at my $2.65 an hour job (about $350) to get a monster stereo turn table with, get this, a built in 8 track tape recorder. It had a pretty good sound. Actually, I have no idea what kind of sound it had but it was loud and that mattered back then. Being the fifth child and one who didn’t drink, smoke pot or sleep around I don’t think my parents cared much about the noise, they were glad to have me home and safe. Now that I have teens I totally get that! Rock on kids, I know where you are, I’ll jam some cotton in my ears.

Funny thing, after all the advances in technology I listen to music on my laptop with some hip $10 speakers my hubby had left over from work and was dragging around in the back of his car. Hey, it works for me. I sit scanning my old photos, reading the news,  doing my email or blogging all the while listening to my tunes on my ten dollar speakers. If I feel like really cranking it up and tuning out the rest of the world I put in my $10 ear phones.

Here’s the new part, most of the music I listen to is free and I do it totally legally. How do I do this you ask, we’ll let me just tell you. It’s called Pandora. I discovered this awesome site about eighteen months ago and it is all I listen to. Pandora is a website where you create stations of songs, groups, or singers you like. They will play some of the original music but they add in songs that are similar that you might like. As the songs play you get to click on a thumbs up or a thumbs down. What I have found is that I like most of the music that comes my way. Little by little I have discovered some amazing Indy groups that are so much better than what you normally get on the radio.

While I normally minimize the site while I do at least three other things at a time I have purchased at least three cds of music that I first discovered on Pandora. I know three isn’t much but I am not much of a consumer, so three is a lot for me. I will buy more in the future I’m sure. Let me just tell you about some of these wonderful artists and these are not in order of my favorite. It has to depend on the mood I’m in of course.

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The first group was actually suggested by a fellow blogging friend north of the border up in Canada and where this fantastic group comes from. Jen of I Miss My Mind the Most suggested The Be Good Tanyas. Let me tell you, these girls rock, not in the traditional sense but they are awesome. I must admit that my kids listen to them and want to know why their voices are so strange. Kids, they actually have voices, they are not created by a manager in a studio. They sing and play my very favorite, THE BANJO! Their music is a combo of folk, bluegrass, country and blues.

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The next favorite group is also from Canada. I wonder what they’re doin’ up north to create so many good musicians? Maybe they’re all rockin out to keep warm? The next group is called The Duhks. They are a group of twenty somethings that play a combo of folk, gospel, zydeco, celtic and whatever they feel like. I discovered them on Pandora with a bunch of other great artists like Sean Hayes who has some wild hair but makes me want to dance every time I listen to Rattlesnake Charms. Sean Hayes301

The Duhks really play all kinds of music but with Sean Hayes it’s his unusual voice and lyrics that appeal to me. He plays an acoustic guitar and mostly a folk singer I guess, but he has something very different about him and I love his stuff.

Then there’s Gillian Welch who almost could be a country singer but since I don’t like country music she must not be because I love her music too. I guess she’s not country because she doesn’t wear a push-up bra or heavy make up. Her voice is eerily like Janis Joplin too. She sings with unbelievable feeling. To me it sounds like she really means what she’s singing.Gillian Welch

The above mentioned are definitely my latest favorites but there are many more. I will mention some of the artists I have discovered and the songs that I especially like. If you go to Pandora you should be able to listen to their music and eventually the songs mentioned will pop up. Along the way you’ll also find all kinds of neat music that you never knew you liked. Happy listening and if you feel like it let me know who you discovered.
Lastly here are some other favorites.

Brandi Carlisle singing Josephine. She sings with a sweet rich voice that reminds me of Mama Cass from the Mamas and the Papas. Louden Wainwright singing Unhappy Anniversary a catchy bluegrass tune. The Waiffs singing London Still, Mia and Jonah with Bird on the Wing. I don’t like all their music but I like how they harmonize in this song. Lastly I can’t believe I really like Sun’s Work Undone by The Hackensaw Boys because, well… let’s just face it I can not call them anything but country, though for some reason they call their music bluegrass with punk?? Then there’s Redbird a beautiful country/folk group with lovely tunes my favorite at the moment being Lighthouse.

What is really amazing is that this is really only one genre that I listen to, there are others perhaps for a Pandora’s Box 2 post for another day.

Mimi

My Fairy Godmother

My Fairy Godmother

So I don’t post anything for a couple of weeks and now I’m posting twice in one day. Anyway… Tony and I were invited to a formal event. My first thought, feeling much like Cinderella was, I can’t I don’t have anything to wear and neither did Tony. I put it at the back of my mind. The party was in celebration of our friend’s purchase and complete restoration of one of the most Historic homes in our town. The invitation said, period costume or black tie. We didn’t really have the funds at the moment to rent a costume and by the time I would have rented one most of them were already gone for the same party. I have a couple of days for drastic measures so I packed up all the kids and off we went to none other than our three favorite thrift stores.

In the first thrift store I found the perfect dress for a grand total of $10. In the second thrift store I managed to find a gorgeous pair of shoes for $2.50 and best of all an Oscar de La Renta tuxedo for Tony for all of $9. The most amazing thing was that the tux fit. Actually the slacks were too small. I could tell this would be the case so I hit the racks and for another $3.50 found another matching pair. I truly felt like I had a fairy godmother. Jenna was the one who unearthed the tux. It was not with the other suits so it was a strike of luck.

The party was absolutely amazing. The house is as amazing and wonderful as Mount Vernon which was George Washington’s home in Alexandria, Virginia or Monticello, Thomas Jefferson’s home in Charlottesville, only this house has a normal family living in it. I could kick myself for not having carted along my clunky camera. Tony said it wouldn’t have been appropriate but it probably would have. So now I have no photos to show this amazing house. The family who bought it was absolutely meant to have it because the understand the value of it and as soon as it was restored they opened it up to their friends and relatives and others to have a look. They had ever nook and cranny open for view and what a job they did. You will have to use your imagination because as I said I did not take any photos.

The house was built in 1792 by Robert Brooke, an 18th century Virginia governor. I heard it was commissioned by Queen Anne. Many famous folks have visited it and it was used as a hospital during the civil war. Tony and I counted twenty rooms and that didn’t even take in the basement rooms as well. I could go on but I won’t. I’ll just post photos of us in our regalia. Thank goodness for fairy godmothers.